My answer applied to whichever way you meant it. In my mind, your woman wanting sex so much that she takes control of it is definitely sexy.
Okay, then I'm sticking by my original answer. Enjoy that power while it lasts because once it's gone, it's gone. It should last for a while, though. But, it does kinda suck when you lose it. I think the best bet for the guy is to be good at something. Something that puts you over the mob, over the masses. I'm serious, I'm very ****ing serious. In the end, your power is what you make it because they really control the whole show. GL, Gentlemen maybe a weird topic, maybe an even weirder answer...but shit...Truth, fellas. Truth.
I'm with Wicked, the woman is control, you're both having sex because she wants to, she is letting, you (male) are a puddle of hormones in her hands. Yeah, when doing the act, the guy might be the one doing the thrusting or in the "in control" position, but c'mon, big picture here, folks. Rape O'Clock notwithstanding.