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Discussion in 'Films, TV, Music, Books, Etc.' started by Mod-Chip, Apr 6, 2012.
I do! What do I win?
You should believe. It's the closest i've come to sex in a couple months, which is really damn sad.
Why was younger me more of a whore than legal-drinking-age me?
These days i'm more likely to stay at home and work out my taxes and car payments than go out with mates and make all the tipsy girls laugh. Feels bad man.
Welcome to the real world bro.
Isn't Madster like 15 or 16?
All right you assholes quit talking about me.
Porn is good = in moderation.
Masturbation is natural = in moderation.
Both teach us about our bodies in ways that our prudish culture won't DARE discuss publicly, but too much of both can warp your reality of what you think "healthy normal" sex should look like. For a while I examined everyone around me and speculated about their porn browsing habits, I even stumbled upon ( or went looking for) my dad's porn stash and found it boring. Even now, I have a few female friends who own huge dogs... and sometimes.. I wonder..
In the scheme of things - porn is a benefit to a society where people can't openly express their intimate interests.
Good answer Urban!
Now onto the next question...
What are your thoughts about one-night stands?
More specifically, do you think that a person who is willing to have sex with you the first time you see them is someone worth pursuing (i.e. it doesn't matter if they're willing to give it up on the get go) in the longer term?
Flip side to that: If you give it up to someone the first night seeing them, should they think you're worth pursuing?
It takes two to "give it up."
Or ten, if you're BBK.
Ten and you have to name drop NYC and every bar you're at...And the area said bars are in.
I dont do one night stands - I get too attached.
As soon as you see the person you had a one night stand with again, you become fuck buddies. Then if you keep seeing each other it progresses to relationship (with a sturdy base ). That's how I work it.
I too don't do one night stands like MattAY has mentioned. That's probably due to the fact it's hard for me to find a girl that enjoys...my unique qualities. So, I try getting what I can. As it turns out, I attract morons to have sex with. Not the special needs when they're in wheel chairs and makes grunts, cries, and moans. I'm talking about the kind like Jillian
Were it not for one night stands in the seventies and eighties how would we exist? Takes a lot of bad decisions and iffy personal choices to create the generation that made video games what they are now.
"I want to be a wizard that carries a sword and goes on quests"!
My personal stance however is that one night stands serve one purpose. A release of ALL worldly frustration. Once it has been released then you can move on and think straight. Do not try to date the one night stand. That just ruins the experience for both of you.
Instead it is advisable that you setup a "F***buddy" type relationship that you can springboard into a real relationship through mutual understanding and guilt.
yes someone you have a one night stand is worth pursuing, and yes they should consider pursuing you as well if they have an interest.
big deal, it's sex. doesn't mean shit in this day and age and you shouldn't judge someone based off their perception of it.
long story short, if you're willing to have one night stands, it's extremely hypocritical to not think someone is dating material because they have one.
Tell teenagers that masturbation is good in moderation. I defy you to do so!
Teenagers? Tell anyone that's under 35.
Be safe and wrap up. The scariest parts of one-night stands are: 1) exposing yourself to strangers, 2) one night stand location, 3) the departure.
1) being naked is unsafe with a stranger ( especially if you dont know this person's motive or history). Could be the Zodiak Killer, a complete psycho, or your naked body could trigger repressed daddy images and freak her out.... Getting you naked then snapping pics of you makes for amazing black mail material too - so make sure both of you are the same levels of nakedness. :wink: And once your naked and doing the deed are you sure she hasn't been going through your stuff while you "prepped" in the bathroom?
2.) If thats not scary enough, where are you going to have sex? Her place? Some run down room or her basement dungeon where her friends are waiting in the wings to mug you? And if you go back to your place you have to do your best to make her feel comfortable - because she's probably thinking the same about you. Unless shes TANKED!
3.) Which brings us to this point. The Morning after departure. If she WAS tanked, your morning could be explosive. Do your best to let your friends and her friends know you're leaving together so the rape flag doesn't fly when she wakes up regretful about letting some neckbeard pump and sweat on top of her while she was drowning in her own vomit (nice visual eh?!). On the other hand, she could be a stage 5 clinger - which would require you to use some slick conversational movements to leave. Work on your alibi the night before, so in the AM you could be like - "remember that thing I said I had to do, yea well Im late for it". Lastly, it could be awkward. Both of you guys agreed to this fit of passion, be adults about it and decide if its worth pursuing or not. Exchange numbers and play the game.
One night stands happen. They're fun as long as you keep these tips in mind gents. ProTip: Your best chances for one are cougars. I think a relationship with someone you had a one night stand with could be more rewarding that someone you meet on a dating web-site... but thats just my opinion.
I was thinking 65... Oh wait there's a pill for that.. So yeah, tell anyone with a penis.
Speaking of this my roommate has casual sex with this one chick and her nickname is literally stage-5 clinger and yet she is sooooooo annoying and not to mention looks like a horses ass. And he wonders why I tell him he is a retard.
^ Is it Sarah Jessica Parker?
Hey, girls masturbate too.
Just no where as often and they never reveal that they do, even under threat of death.
Also agree with urbans assessment of relationships following sex being superior to online dating and such.
Sexual compatibility is immensely important for a long term relationship. No point going out for 3-4 months before you have sex, only to find out that thing's in the bedroom just don't work out.
Speaking from experience, that just makes everything tense and fights break out and eventually you'll just split up.
Much better if you can find out if the sex is actually good before trying to date seriously. You can get past things like hobbies/likes by not being joined at the hip, but if your every attempt at a good night in leaves you both dissatisfied it's much harder to fix and get past.