De-Ting said:
Well, not everyone is you, Optichris.
:cry:
I'll try to play by the rules that are in place. I can literally feel myself dying by doing so, but okay.
Hey, Gunner. Sorry your relationship ended around your birthday. That sucks. You should go out with your best bros and definitely talk to other chicks. Post pics of yourself on Facebook with these new girls and whatever you do, don't talk to your ex
even though you said you were close to proposing to her--argh! had to catch myself. Almost gave thought to the situation.
where was i...
dude, just go out and get plastered, smash some chicks immediately and all of your problems are solved....--argh, I can taste my own sarcasm, and it tastes like shit!
Alright, you know what? Fuck that.
Look, Gunner. I can't give you advice on what to do. If you were close to proposing to this woman, maybe giving her up cold turkey
isn't the best thing to do after all. Sure, you CAN follow the Break-Up Advice guide verbatim but you obviously have deeper feelings for this woman, more so than any of us can immediately relate to if you were thinking of popping the question soon, so you should do what's best for you and not what's best for your bros or your online reputation or your ego. If you Feel you need to pour your heart out to this woman Do it. Who are you letting down by doing so? US? Screw us!
Do it if you think it'll work. Don't let your foolish pride or any of us get in the way. You don't know what tomorrow can bring for her. SO maybe, yeah, she found another guy, but who's to say that's gonna last? If you lover her still, tell her. Let her know that you'll be there whenever.
To me, when she says she wants to be friends, that means she's not 100% sure on this new guy anyway. And you don't have to put all of your eggs in one basket, either. Date, sure. But, if you're talking about marriage, and you are, then she's worth fighting for. Don't let our "advice" get in the way of that. That's all I meant from the start, because I think it's horrible advice to follow someone else's advice on love. I don't know how you feel about her except that you said you were thinking about proposing. The only advice I can give is to do what you think is best. Anything else any of us have to say is pointless because we don't know how deeply you feel for her. Or not. We don't know. Who are we to say what you should do...
Some things, some people in life
are worth fighting for, and you shouldn't feel ashamed by that.