Great work, Paradox. With weight loss, the first step is always the hardest but I'm glad you're taking it. I agree, we should all keep this thread going.
It might sound sad but you're absolutely right, you can certainly attract a girl with charm, humour and intelligence but as shallow as it may sound, being a bit slimmer (or even showing signs of work, e.g losing weight over a period of time) can improve your chances. Best of luck man. Keep us posted.
If you would like any assistance regarding diet, exercise, gym etc. I might be able to help (and same with a few fellow GRians, like intoTheRain and Green_Lantern). I'm no professional but I know a couple of things.
Also... I'm going to be a downer but I have some unfortunate and sad news that I would like to share with everyone, and it's regarding health and weight.
Long story short, when I was a teenager I didn't have many friends and I spent way too much time on the Internet. So while I didn't have many friends "iRL", I had quite a few close Internet friends from games and such, some of which I still talk to today, have on Facebook etc.
A good Internet friend of mine who I've known for ten years passed away last week. It was sudden.
One of my other Internet friends (who's boyfriend is "iRL" friends with our friend) told me about this over Skype while I was in Singapore. Shortly after, my friend's Facebook wall was covered in condolence messages from his friends.
I've always known he was a bit of a bigger guy but I didn't really know how big. He was apparently over five hundred pounds and had difficulty walking and standing. He passed away due to heart failure and leaves behind friends and family. He was only in his early thirties. Too young. He was a good friend. Unfortunately, I had no idea of his health decline.
My point is that people really need to take care of themselves, otherwise tragedies like this happen. We've gotta try and look after ourselves.
[Edit/Update] I found out that my Internet friend had passed away because of heart failure. Sadly, this would have been because of his weight.
Take care of yourselves, everyone.