That is unfortunate... I'm sorry to hear that. It's easy to see why she may have some problems, sadly. I think you're right... I think she was hoping that her relationship with you was going to take her to better, higher places, especially considering the very unfortunate circumstances she has in her life. I think that's why she was being quite rushy with the relationship. You're right, you can't be in a one sided relationship... even if it made her happier and made her life better, if you weren't feeling the same feelings as she was, well... then it just wouldn't work out in the long run. You did the right thing. Live and learn, you learn from past experience. The next time you begin to enter a relationship, you'll be more careful and aware and you'll know what's going on. I guess all I can suggest there to sorta counter that point slightly, is don't let past experiences rule your future. Hope that makes sense.