If I am with a girl and by the time she had her panties off, well for one there is no damn possible way she is going to be anywhere near the age of 12, and then when her woman parts are showing and she reveals a hairless vagina I don't stop and say man that looks like a 12 year olds vagina. Completely shaven is all the way to go. It's just a matter of how much the woman wants to keep maintainance. I'm sure it kills to wax, and not everybody can get the laser hair removal but yeah, that's how I prefer it to be taken care of. If theres whatever forms of grass on the baseball field, I'm still playin ball, but there is a limit where I probably wouldn't touch. I'm talking if you need to part the hair to see whats on, then I don't know. I've never been into that situation just quite yet, and perhaps it can be kept that way.