intoTheRain said:
yea i'll tell my girlfriends step dad drugs are completely safe and it was just his sons psychological makeup that lead him down a long destructive path of drug abuse, eventually ending in an OD death that drugs are safe, it was just his sons psychology that caused it.
Your girlfriends brother needed help with a substance. He may have been psychologically drawn to try harder substances. He may have even been chemically addicted after awhile.
Blaming only the substance though is to take personal responsibility away from the individual and their psychology and the effect that substance had interacting with individual and their psychology and physiology.
We also dont know what substance he was using, what purity it was, What he thought his dosage should be. What other substance or pharmaceuticals he was on at the same time.
intoTheRain said:
ill also mention it to my brothers best friend, who died of an overdose, that drugs are safe, his friends psychological makeup just killed him. and he wasn't even really a big druggy just a pot smoker that occasionally messed with some stronger drugs.
You don't have to be a big druggie to OD. Many people without tolerances to heroin for example OD easily. Part of safe responsible drug use is knowing proper dosage, set and setting, and doing your research before you use a substance. Part of harm reduction also means knowing your source and making sure your getting pure substances as adulterants can cause a lot of harm.(Once again regulation and taxation gives quality control)
intoTheRain said:
ill tell my girlfriend that her highschool friend who is now in a wheelchair and cant form a complete sentence after crashing his car on E that it was just his psychological makeup, not the drug that caused it.
This will sound harsh but you should never drive on drugs. This isnt the Es fault its your girlfriends friends. Im not saying you should say that to her face. But its the truth.
intoTheRain said:
i'll tell my best highschool friend who i hadn't seen in 4 years, that the reason he now talks like a retard, and looks like he had a stroke is because of his psychological makeup, not the danger of the drugs that made him that way.
Im not sure what this personal story is or what substance he used but with taking drugs comes some risk and that includes how susceptible the individual is to epilepsy, stroke, heart attack, and other psychological and physiological factors. Id highly recommend him to see a doctor and maybe start on some nootropics or some kind of therapy to help mitigate. A lot of people come out of speech therapy with excellent results.
intoTheRain said:
ill tell the girls i was standing beside in the convenience store the other day, half clothed when its -20 outside, with blisters all over their skin looking like zombies that heroin is not dangerous, it's just their psychological makeup that makes it dangerous.
Im sure if she was on heroin(-20 outside with barely any clothes, its probably meth or bath salts), she knows heroin is bad. She needs to be offered medical help, not just to have people tell her that its bad for her. If she doesn't want help though there is nothing you can do for her.
People get in over their heads. It happens, but to only say its the "heroins" fault is to remove personal responsibility from her.
intoTheRain said:
you're both literally sitting here pretending there is absolutely no negative aspect to drugs
This is not what we are saying. We are saying that some of the dangers are overblown and misunderstood.(Like people thinking marijuana is a gateway drug)
Drugs can be tricky and have intricate interactions with the users psychology and physiology.Some drugs can be very dangerous to the individual(Like bath salts). Its why I advocate safe, responsible, intelligent, educated, substance use. You cant just blame the drug only though, personal responsibility has to be taken by the individual. Is the heroin addict only addicted to heroin because she was born that way? No, she had a psychological draw to want to try it, Then she did and liked it, then she did it for awhile, and then she not only had a psychological addiction but a physiological addiction.
The truth is many recreational drugs can be used very safely while mitigating almost all of the harm. Some drugs are more dangerous to the individual then others. But its up to the user and their personal responsibility to research any substance that they put in their body. If they don't, its just as much the harm of the substances fault as the individual and their psychology.
I get it, you had people you know hurt. But so have I.
Ive had three close friends put in the mental ward from bath salts, Ive had friends end up in jail for simple possession,Ive had friends die from overdose or adulterated substances. Ive had friends die to retarded things only a day after they came to me for advice and they didn't listen to my advice. Its part of what vindicates me to research substances and substance use every day. That way if anyone, even people on this forum, come to me with questions about a substance, I can give them the most educated, well meaning, information on the substance and its proper use.
But
Marijuana is not a gateway drug Which is what this topic was about. There is nothing physiologically that makes marijuana addictive or makes you want to try harder substances.