I had a co-worker, without warning, lift up my shirt and display my abdomen for everyone. "See!" she giggled, "I told you he had abs!" I was thinking yes, of course I have rectus abdominis muscles - everyone does. As a few girls stroked my hard stomach one of them asked "You must work out, like, constantly." I yanked my shirt back down and began shaking and crying. "I don't work out constantly, SIX PACKS ARE MADE IN THE KITCHEN, NOT THE GYM!" I went to storm off and then stopped, adding "And calling them 'abs' is stupid, we all have abs, yours are just hidden beneath fat... and HATE!" I had to breathe into a paper bag for 10 minutes before I could stop shaking with anger and humiliation. It was terrible how they thought they could just grab my body. Then, at an employee night-out at a local bar, all of the 'ab stroker' girls surrounded me, asking which one 'I'd rather fuck'. It was horrible and demeaning. I ended up going home with two of them, but they only stared at my torso during intercourse. I just want someone to look me in the eyes!