My problem is that it shouldn't be any of our business who is screwing who. I really appreciated the guy from GR's view on it. This has zero to do with games.
I enjoy gaming, but I hate to be grouped in to this like I had something to do with it because of any action or inaction. I don't care about this Quinn person, and I don't care who or what she did or didn't do. I do care about how we treat each other as humans and some of the treatment after the fact by anonymous members of the internet community is exactly on par with what I've come to expect- absolutely gross.
Anyhow, I'm glad a majority of you good dudes seem to feel exactly this way.
Bottom line is this- ethics exist for a reason. Usually the unethical folks get shaken from the tree and are exposed. It sounds like that might be what is happening to all parties and it really has nothing to do with me.