I'm about twelve or so hours into my second playthrough and it's almost time to choose a second spec for my warrior. My first was the berserker and that was pretty kickass. I want the reaver but I hear to unlock that you have to taint Andraste's ashes which causes you to lose Lelina and I've been trying to get into her pants. Thinking of which, I've maxed her disposition towards me and her legs stay closed... what am I doing wrong? Anyway, any other way to unlock the reaver?