If you have a relationship issue with your significant other, sort it out with him/her, If you have an existential issue, a difficulty to find the right purpose in your life, read the Bible , go to a church , synagogue or mosque. Sort yourself out, sort your relationship out with God/ Allah/ Buddha, whoever you have faith towards. God gave you the free will to make your shadow submit to you. Video games are not there as a diversion you can turn into ,when the odds are against you, , Your life is not your backlog. Video games are not the tube, Video games are not the reality. This is why i hate game conventions like E3 , where games are advertised and represented as such. Your ideology, your perception of the world will become your reality, Deny yourselves of all forms of media, until you find your unmistakable reality. You control the media you are consuming, don't let them control you. May God bless you.